Its Not All Fun and Games
As I get ready for my summer staff journey at Timber Wolf, I have such high expectations. I’m excited to learn, share, and bond with people from all over the country. I hear amazing stories from past summer staff volunteers, and Young Life leaders that I have encountered in college. Yet, I understand that there are going to be some times where everything isn’t fun and amazing, I’m still going to be put to work! I also know that the purpose of me being at camp is to give campers the best week of their life, and if that means waking up early, putting in long hours in the sun/heat, and having a curfew, I accept that. I’m going to have to preserve through these times to experience the great ones that everyone raves about. Its not always going to be easy, but it will always be worth it. I’m here to serve God and I couldn’t be more excited for this experience.
(It’s the best week of the camper’s lives, and I’m lucky enough to help make that happen through my work on the Timber Karts!)
In order to continue to prepare for this month on summer staff I think I need to work on my conflict avoidance. I know that there is a possibility of working with people I don’t get along with, there will be times where I feel exhausted or overwhelmed, and I’m sure conflict will arise eventually. I have a great ability to hold my tongue and I usually am pretty level headed about seeing both sides of the situation. Unfortunately, I sometimes struggle by avoiding the whole conflict in general because I don’t want to cause any hard feelings. What I mean by that is I tend to bottle things up and then later I’ll be able to think through them to calm down. Once I think through the conflict I am ready to get back at the task or friendship with a good attitude. I believe I need some improvement on talking out problems with the other person instead of just myself because I think a better understanding could be reached if I had the opportunity to hear what the other person has to say. I know that this will be easier for me to do as I become more comfortable around strangers and I find more confidence to confront others. Luckily, throughout college I have had many opportunities to start this self-improvement and I feel as if I can handle conflicting situations much better than I have in the past.
I think the biggest challenge that I will face on summer staff is having patience as the summer staff crew bonds. I know how excited I am to meet everyone that I will be serving with, and I have a feeling that I will be a bit disappointed that I won’t be best-friends with everyone over night. Or, for that matter, even know everyone’s names. It will take time, maybe even the entire month, to build a true connection with each of the workers. Until then, patience is a virtue that I’m going to have to practice!
~Timber Kart Summer Staff,
McKenna Mathis